Do not embarrass him when you catch him gazing at women dressed sexily. On the contrary, try to point out those women and encourage him to look at them. Make remarks such as “Gosh look how short her skirt is.” Or “Wow what a pair of legs.” Try to dress more sexy. Shorter skirts. Many men love to see women in stockings. Try these, and tell me how he reacts when you are together alone.
Antonia, I can't bring myself to encourage him! As for stockings, he believes these are made for hookers and prostitutes. On many instances when we go shopping, and he sees a mannequin in stockings, he comments that shops are promoting prostitution.
Posted 7/28/2009 7:56 am
Walking back home from school I always pass through a park. Its known that many lovers make it behind some bush. I took it for a habit to peek and this gets me excited. Once I discovered two of my classmates making it with our gym teacher, a voluptuous woman about 30. I have this for fantasy, I think of them making it with me joining.
Posted 7/28/2009 7:59 am
Once after having sex with my boyfriend I peed while I was still on top of him. He was thrilled. Now when we have sex, I try not to empty my bladder and I pee on him afterwards.
Posted 7/28/2009 8:48 am
I dream of offering my wife to another woman. I make out a scenario of this while fucking my wife. She does not know what goes in my mind and we do not talk about it. I am sure she has her scenarios in her own mind. We all fantasize, right?
I am sure your boyfriend is sexually antagonized by hookers and women wearing stockings. Wear these for him and you will enrage him sexually, and it is very likely that he will be wild with you. In a man’s subconscious world, hookers are to be had with force, to be punished, and that’s what he might do to you. To take you with force.
Posted 7/28/2009 12:47 pm
I once had a very strange dream. I saw my husband buggering a guy and frigging that guy’s huge erection at the same time, until the guy shot his load. Ever since this dream, I replay it as I saw it, or in different versions, and it excites me to no end. Sometimes I also imagine myself participating taking the guy’s penis in my mouth with my husband frigging him. I like to imagine a guy spending in my mouth.
My husband and I share our fantasies and the two or three times I tell him about it, he just hushes me up and tells me he does not want me to continue. On the other hand he relates to seeing me with another woman. We are both 32, and I do not know why men are so engrossed about lesbian sex. I read your survey and see how important it is to men. What surprised me though is you mentioning that women also have this fantasy. I never think of another woman.
I am a woman. I agree with you that having sex in public places is thrilling. It is the notion of not getting caught that is most exciting. Once my boyfriend and I while at a park, got caught by and elderly couple. It was embarrassing, but were really surprised when the old man said, he would have done the same were he much younger!
Posted 7/28/2009 1:52 pm
I have a fantasy where i take a girl out (let's call her Kelly) as a date to a party. The evening progresses, drinks are had and everyone is in high spirits. The night begins to draw to a close. She then hooks up with some other guy, i drive them back to her place so they can fuck, while i sit in my car crying and masturbating.
I am 63. My wife is 50. I am no longer capable of really satisfying her. We go out, and we pick up a young guy and take him home with us. While he has sex with her I masturbate. We do that every other week. Often she finds it very pleasurable, at other times not so, depending how good the guy is. We have still to try it with two guys. I am sure she'll get more satisfaction with two guys having her.
Many call your act as "golden showers." It is a fantasy, a fairly common one. It manifests itself when the person who is peeing subconsciously wants to "degrade" his partner by pissing on him/her.
Normally one cannot cry and masturbate at the same time. But one can fantasise about anything, even if it is not logical. Your act indicates that you either consciously or subconsciously want your girl had by another person and this excites you sexually, but at the same time you cry out of pity for yourself for having allowed this to happen (in your fantasy).
Believe me, sharing one's wife or girlfriend is a very common male fantasy. In one of my earlier posts I mentioned why a man would want to share his partner with another man.
Posted 7/28/2009 2:24 pm
Woman, 34, married. I fantasize about making it with a dog. making it at the back of a church yard. making it in front of a public applauding.
